Dare to Dream

Hello guys,Before writing this post,I was thinking a lot about success.Every time when I have plans,plans about great dreams in the future,plans about study abroad,plans to have a nice family,etc.I was afraid of failures,once I drafted my plans,I started talking to myself some things like :”Will that plan really work?How can I insist on such a long time?May be I should do something else?May be I should have my time for another project?”,you know,I was just afraid of failure.And I was totally missing in the past several decades.Because I never believe in myself.

Until yesterday,I get a lesson from a teacher called as Zong Ze Li, 8:00 am 29th,Aug,2009 to 4:40 am 30th,Aug,2009.Zong Ze Li is a coach,he helps people to overcome their own psychological blocks.Actually,before the lesson,I was just thinking that is another unfruitful stuff which is just going to last for about 20 hours.I really did not expect anything good from it.You know,I have attended lots of trainings and lectures in the past a few decades.And I believe may be some of you,my readers also suffered some loss.You can understand my feelings.

And the lesson was begun as scheduled.We did lots of interactions,I was not very interested in the lesson,in fact,I just treated all the interactions as missions.Then there was a “mission”,the teacher needs a volunteer for a game.He firstly asked us,”Do you believe that fingers can lift a 65kg man?”.I did not take that very serious,but there was nothing else to do,some people believed him,while others did not.He said :”people who do not believe him,please sit on the left,people who believe him sit on the right.”I was sit on the right before the game,and I was not a cowardly person,and may be I was too lazy to remove my ass.I was just sit on the right.Then Mr.Li said that he need a person who is weight 65kg.May be because I was 65kg,or I had nothing to do at that time.I did a stupid thing.I risen my hand.And Mr.Li chosen me.Then he picked up another person who is only 60kg.We were both on the stage.I am not afraid of standing on a stage at all.Then Mr.Li picked 10 person who believed that only fingers could lift a 65kg man.And let them stay as my teammates on the stage,then he picked another 10 person who did not believe that fingers could lift a 65kg man at all.And asked them to stay with the 60kg man as his teammates.

Then Mr.Li asked me and that 60kg guy to lay on the floor.And we laid on the floor.Then he asked each of my teammates to use only one finger to lift my body,while asking the rest team to do the same thing for the 60kg guy.Soon,magic thing happened,I was lifted from the from with only 12 fingers,which some people did not believe at all.But the rest team did not move the 60kg guy.

Yes,that was really happened.Honestly speaking,I did not completely believe the game at the very beginning.But when I was lifted by other,I begun to thought I was wrong. My team succeed,because all my teammates believed that only fingers could lift a 65kg person.Because they did what they believe.

However,for another team,they can not move even a 60kg person,because,they did not believe themselves.Technically,65kg weight for 10 finger,each finger only need to lift 6.5kg.so a normal people’s finger can lift a 6.5kg object.In this game,person is not much different,and this team is only required to lift a 60kg person,but they failed,actually,they even did not try to lift that 60kg guy,they even did not think to take a try.That is the reason why they are failed.

So,what is the principle from that game.People never do anything they think is wrong,they just do things they think right.

Some times,difficulties is not that much,we just enlarge it.And we just are afraid of the enlarged imaginations.We just affected by too many negative things.That was my problem,and for some of you,that is also a problem.

So you want to achieve success,believe yourself and put hard work on your  project.When time comes by,dream can be true.

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